Stopped in the supermarket today to pick up something for my
husband Peter who is not on the Food Stamp Challenge. Since I still had 50 cents of my $31.50 budget to spend, I
gave in and walked through the fruit aisle. Picked up the smallest apple I could find and weighed
it. Hmmmm. At $1.29 a pound it would have come to
about 50 cents but maybe a bit over. I put it back and looked for something
cheaper. Sure enough there were beautiful pears on sale at 99 cents a
pound. Chose one. Turned out it
was only 39 cents at checkout. Thank you ShopRite!
And it was delicious.
Arrived home and ate every speck of it except the seeds and the stem.
This Sunday night is the start of Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish
New Year. At many synagogues,
including ours, folks will take home an empty grocery bag and return it ten
days later on Yom Kippur with food donations for the hungry. A few days ago one of the teens asked
me to think about how those who cannot afford to donate food must feel when
they are handed that bag. Are they
ashamed that they cannot do the good deed for others that most around them seem
to be able to afford? How does it feel to return the next week empty
handed? I explained that someone
could just recycle the bag at home, and that people do not bring the bags back
all at once so no one would notice if someone did not make a donation. Still, it gave me pause. There is shame in not having the resources other have.
When we make the announcement at services inviting people to
take a bag home, we will need to acknowledge that many among us cannot afford
to participate so we need others to make an even greater effort this year if
they are blessed with financial well-being. And we need to be sure our ushers ask if someone would like a bag - not assume that all will take them.
After Yom Kippur we will also need to ask ourselves: what are we doing for the
food-challenged sitting in our own pews? We Jews think of the hungry as the
“other.” We don’t imagine it in
our own well-educated community.
We are wrong.
I don’t know the solution yet. I do know that the greatest impact of taking the Food Stamp
Challenge has not been the planning, eating or reading up on the facts about
SNAP. It has been the unplanned
conversations that arise as people share their stories of volunteering and donating for the
hungry, teaching their children about hunger, or quietly reveal their own
situation of food scarcity. Those
stories are more real than the $31.50 worth of food I lived on for the last 7
days.
One challenge is ending, but the challenge we all face - to
make sure no child or adult goes to bed hungry - remains.
P.S. If you are in New Jersey, please consider signing up as an automatic monthly donor at the Community Food Bank of New Jersey. Just go to http://www.njfoodbank.org/how-to-help/donate-funds/community-harvesters